A fulfilling sex life is important to most people, regardless of whether you are partnered or single.

Sexual Difficulties are common and you are not alone.

I can support you through issues such as;




Erectile Dysfunction


Painful Sex


STI diagnosis


Sexual or Gender Identiy


Delayed or Premature Orgasm


Compulsive Sexual Behaviours




Difficulty with experiencing pleasure and orgasms


Concerns regarding fertility or fertility treatment


Sexual Traumas


Any other difficulties you may be experiencing


Ella is the only fully accredited Clinical Sexologist based in Cairns. She is open-minded and supportive, and understands that sexual issues can create shame and embarrassment, and finds that often it is these feelings which are the biggest issue in embracing a healthy sex life. Ella empowers individuals and couples to overcome a range of sexual concerns such as changes in libido, Erectile Dysfunction, Painful Sex, STI diagnosis, Sexual or Gender Identity, Delayed or Premature Orgasm, Compulsive Sexual Behaviours, Infidelity, Changes after illness, surgery or baby, Concerns regarding fertility or fertility treatment, Sexual Traumas and any other difficulties one may be experiencing. Sex therapy counselling is talk therapy, with exercises to try at home. Ella welcomes people of all sexualities, genders, relationship types and bodies.

Ella is an Accredited Clinical Psychosexual Therapist with the Society of Australian Sexologists Ltd. She adheres to the Society’s Code of Ethics and Practice. To find out more, go to 

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$180 (60 minute session)

Face to Face or via Zoom

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What does a sex therapist do

Sexologists study, research, and work within specialist areas in the field including sexual development over the lifespan (child, adolescent and ageing sexuality), sexual relationships, sexual behaviour and activity, sexual identity and orientation, and also with groups (cultures, people with disability, adolescents, sex in older age). The study of sexual function is also part of the broad umbrella term sexology, and may include, sexual dysfunctions like anorgasmia, erectile dysfunction, vaginismus, and sexual pain, among others. (From Society of Australian Sexologist Website).

Ella is an accredited Clinical Sexologist and mentor for other therapists with the Society of Australian Sexologists. She provides sex therapy counselling through talk therapy and coaching related to all aspects of sexual wellbeing.

What is a sex therapist

A sex therapist is a counsellor or therapist that specialises in helping people with any aspect of sexual function, sexual identify, sexual relationships or issues with intimacy and sex.

When to see a relationship therapist

It’s never too late to seek help for your relationship or marriage. There are tools to learn and new ways of thinking that can help all couples to improve their connection and to enhance their relationship and level of intimacy. Some couples wait to attend sex therapy counselling until they have been in the same patterns for many, many years. It is always better come when there is still some level of love and appreciation, so the early the better to ensure your relationship thrives.  

Can sex THERAPY COUNSELLING help my marriage

It’s hard to talk about sex. Some people feel embarrassed, others say that issues have gone on for so long that talking about them now feels really difficult. Sex therapy counselling can provide support and encouragement to take a new approach to issues that haven’t been working. Many couples overcome issues such as not having sex for a long time, painful sex, affairs, sexual dysfunction and find that with the help of a sex therapist they can have a healthy and satisfying sex life once again.  

what does a clinical sexologist do

A clinical sexologist provides talk therapy to support individuals and couples to improve or overcome issues related to sex, sexuality and sexual functioning.

what is a clinical sexologist

A clinical sexologist is a highly trained and qualified therapist that specialises in supporting individuals and couples with issues, problems and concerns related to any aspect of sex, sexuality and sexual functioning.

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